约会禁忌

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Dating mistakes 约会禁忌

Have you ever had a great first date and then never heard from the guy again? Trust me, we've all been there. Hi, I'm Marie Forleo, life coach and author and I'm gonna share with you three dating mistakes that can be keeping you single.

你是否曾有过美好的约会，而之后此人却杳无音讯？相信我，我们都曾去赴约。嗨，我是玛丽.福利奥，生活教练兼作家。接下来要和您谈谈约会禁忌，这可能会使你永远单身。

Here's my first dating mistake: It's believing that a relationship is gonna save you. I'd like to call this my Jerry Maguire school of that's gonna complete me. Do you remember in that movie when Renee Zellweger and Tom Cruise told each other: "You complete me.” Well, it was awesome and it's really heart fluttering on the big screen. But in reality, that kind of mindset can keep you thinking that something outside of yourself is really gonna solve all your problems, a relationship or a special man. In reality, there is nothing that's gonna solve all your problems or make your life better. So if you can start getting into your life and getting really interested and really trust the idea that you're complete as you are, when you show up on that date, you are gonna be a lot more attractive and that guy is gonna really wanna take you home. 禁忌之一：大家都认为只要保持交往就万无一失。我称之为“有你有我”的《甜心先生》偷工减料的恋爱方式。是否记得，影片中当雷妮·泽尔维格和汤姆·克鲁斯彼此倾诉“有你有我”？荧屏中，着实让人感到难以抵制、心潮澎湃；但在现实中，会让你形成思维定式：总是认为某种外在的事物会解决一切，保持关系或某个男人。 现实中，没有什么可以为你解决一切困扰，或让你的生活有所好转。因此，如果你可以走进生活、产生兴趣、且切实相信自己是完整的，你将魅力大增，你的意中人会真的带你回家。

Mistake No.2: trotting out those horror stories and complaining. I think you guys know what I'm talking about here. You know when you complain about your ex-boyfriends or your crabby boss or your sloppy roommate. Well, those are the kind of things that are just gonna say to a guy, listen, all this girl is into is complaining and I don't know about you but I have not heard of a guy saying: "Guess what, I met this really hot complaining chick last night" So, when next time you are on a date, really take a look at where your conversation is going to. Are you keeping it interesting, and are you interested in him or you’re just trotting out all your horror stories from the day or your past? So give this one a try: Keep your attention on this moment, see if you can keep the conversation about what's happening in a restaurant, what's going on with your friends. You don't have to keep it overly positive, but keep it in the now. That will keep your attention off your complaints and that will get your attraction and your irresistible level, up.

禁忌之二：忘记曾有的遭遇、停止抱怨。我想大家明白我的意思。当你抱怨自己的前男友，或是暴躁的上司，或是臃肿的舍友时，你能明白的。这都是你在约会时的牢骚之语，这个女孩只会抱怨，我并不了解你，但我从未听到过那位男士说：“猜猜看，昨晚我昨晚约见了一个怨妇”。所以，下次约会，留心一下你的谈话。谈话是否有趣，你对他是否有意或者仅仅把你古往今来的郁闷经历和盘托出？


尝试着：多注意一下约会，看是否可以谈论一下周围环境或者朋友的状况。你不必过于渲染，只需着眼当前。分散精力、不去抱怨，这会大大提升你的魅力指数。 Dating mistake No.3: It's dating to find the one instead of dating for fun. Here's what happens: Most people are so interested in trying to figure out whether or not the guy across them is actually gonna be the one? That they are not having a good time. If you are not having a good time, there's no way that you can feel if that person is absolutely gonna be the person for you. So take your attention off for figuring out if you are gonna get down the aisle and see if you can have a good time. Your irresistibility level is gonna shoot up and you’re also gonna have a lot more fun on your dates.

禁忌之三：约会时为了找个如意郎君而不是为了好玩。事实是否是：多数人急于猜测与你共进晚餐的人是否是合适的伴侣，结果他们过得并不开心呢？ 如果不开心，那就不可能成为彼此的意中人。所以，不要老想着他是否合适于你踏上红地毯，要看你们是否过的愉快。你的魅力指数就会飙升，且你也会在约会期间过得更开心。

For more great tips on dating and relationships, feel free to check out my new book "Make Every Man Want You". You can go to makeeverymanwantyou.com. Thanks so much for clicking on iMage, I'm Marie Forleo.

关于约会和恋爱的详细建议，请查询我的新书《倾倒所有男人》。你也可以登录makeeverymanwantyou.com网站。感谢您的点击收看，我是玛丽.福利奥。

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